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Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Lead by Fear or Love?



As a leader, you can choose to lead others by fear or by love.

Fear will motivate and manipulate for short periods, but it will also plant seeds of cynicism and resentment.

Love will also motivate, but it will perpetuate into lasting change, loyalty, and exceptional results.

You have the ultimate power and that is CHOICE.

Choose Love.

YOU Matter!!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Demand Nice

The following post was originally published on July 14, 2014 at www.drivingresultsthroughculture.com.  It was written by my friend Chris Edmonds, whose new book, The Culture Engine, has just been released.  I'm reading it - it is GREAT.  I am sharing his blog post here with his permission, so you can get a glimpse of why I consider Chris one of my long distance mentors.

Demand Nice

A recent news story about a local diner caught my eye. The owners and staff are creating a comfortable customer experience that diners love.
The food is terrific, the staff is modeling great service, and the environment is safe and inspiring. Staff love it and customers love it. Business is booming.
Safe and inspiring work environments – for employees and customers – is unfortunately not normal. It’s all too rare, even if leaders want that kind of environment.
How do you craft a safe and inspiring environment? By demanding that people be nice in every interaction.
The diner owner has a big sign posted near the front door stating, “Be Nice or Leave.” The owner said, “If staff members can’t be nice, they can’t work here. If customers can’t be nice, they can’t eat here. Life is too short to put up with mean people.”
The “Be Nice or Leave” concept has been popularized by the talented Dr. Bob, creator of gorgeous New Orleans folk art.
How nice are leaders and team members in your organization to each other? How nice are leaders and team members to your organization’s internal and external customers?
Setting clear values expectations – with behavioral definitions – is a great start to a nicer, more civil work environment. But setting expectations alone won’t align behavior. Holding people accountable for those behaviors is how one ensures a nicer workplace.
One culture client implemented values and behaviors in their stores. Store leaders received training in the new approach before the valued behaviors were put into place. Store leaders and employees “signed up” – literally, they signed a form – to model the new values and behaviors in every interaction.
These behavioral expectations allowed team leaders and members to raise questions with borderline behaviors, promptly and confidently.
One store employee was known to have a bad temper. She could “fly off the handle” – storming into the stock room, cursing like a longshoreman – at the slightest provocation, by peer or customer.
Soon after the values and behaviors were announced, she popped a cork at work. She barely contained herself in the store’s public areas – but as soon as she got into the stock area, the curse words flew, loud and long.
Her employee peers heard it (they couldn’t miss it). Customers on the floor heard it too (again, it was impossible to miss).
The store manager and her team leader approached her promptly. Behind closed doors, they explained that the employee had broken one of their new team citizenship valued behaviors: “No cursing, no tantrums.” They coached her to ensure she understood that her behavior could not continue if she wanted to remain a company employee. She understood, and calmly went back to her station.
I wish I could say that this conversation stopped her bad behavior forever. It didn’t. She popped her cork later the same week, and was suspended for that infraction. She chose to leave the company rather than return to work.
If your workplace tolerates bad behavior of any kind, refine, refine, refine so it is consistently nice. You’ll enjoy better employee engagement, customer experiences, and performance – and profits.
  

Chris Edmonds is the founder and CEO of the Purposeful Culture Group, which he launched after a 15-year career leading and managing teams. Since 1995, he has also served as a senior consultant with the Ken Blanchard Companies. Chris has delivered over 100 keynote speeches to audiences as large as 5,000, and guided his clients to consistently boost customer satisfaction and employee engagement by 40+% and profits by 30+%. He is the author or co-author of six books, including “Leading At A Higher Level” with Ken Blanchard. His next book, "The Culture Engine: A Framework for Driving Results, Inspiring Your Employees, and Transforming Your Workplace"  will be published by John Wiley & Sons in September 2014.


Thursday, September 25, 2014

What Are You Doing to Stay Active?


What do you do to stay active throughout the day?
You have your daily routines, but what are you doing to shake it up a bit.  "Active" isn't just about movement, but rather diversity of movement with your emotions, thoughts, and actions - moving your spirit, your mind, and your body.
  • How will you think differently today?  
  • How will you think into your results? 
  • What will you get excited about or show more empathy?
  • Will you take the stairs instead of the elevator or park a little farther away from the building?
Share your ideas on how you could shake it up a bit.
YOU Matter!!

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Are You a Critical Thinker or Do You Think Critically?

Are you a critical thinker?
Do you have an insatiable appetite to learn, understand, ponder..... are you curious?  There are many definitions of critical thinking.  I like "thinking about one's thinking in a manner designed to organize and clarify, raise the efficiency of, and recognize errors and biases in one's own thinking."
My feeble attempt to define critical thinking for me is continuous awareness of one's thinking with the purpose to remain open to unconventional answers in seemingly conventional situations. 
Critical thinkers typically look for why things are the way they are or even look for ways things can be accomplished.  The similarly sounding, but very different thinker is the one who thinks critically.  This is one who looks for why things can not be done or is always looking for what's wrong with individuals and the world.
Be a critical thinker, but don't think critically.
YOU Matter!!

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

The Bridge From Ordinary to Extraordinary

Journeys of any significant distance will require us to cross at least one bridge along the way.

Bridges help us to navigate tough terrain that would normally be too difficult to cross.  We enjoy the convenience of the bridge, but the bridge itself was not convenient to build.  Many bridges take years to complete, but are worth the effort.

The bridge we must construct to navigate life's tough terrain is made out of GRIT. On October 10, Linda Kaplan Thaler, Chairman of Publicis Kaplan Thaler will be speaking at a live simulcast event called L2: Learn-Lead on the topic of GRIT: Guts, Resilience, Industriousness and Tenacity. How ordinary people become extraordinary.  Linda will share some of her personal experiences, inspiring stories and anecdotes of both well-known and everyday individuals, along with scientific evidence about the power of GRIT. Linda has grown a start-up to a multi-billion dollar public listed company and that took a lot of GRIT!

In this simulcast, Linda will be joined by world-renowned leadership expert, Dr. John C. Maxwell and internet pioneer, Tim Sanders.  If you are in Austin, TX, join us for this powerful simulcast event at the Moviehouse & Eatery, in West Austin on RR620 right across from Concordia University Texas.


For more information and to reserve your seat, visit our site at L2Austin.


Tuesday, September 9, 2014

The Challenge of Leadership


The challenge of leadership is to 
be strong, but not rude; 
be kind, but not weak; 
be bold, but not bully; 
be thoughtful, but not lazy; 
be humble, but not timid; 
be proud, but not arrogant; 
have humor, but without folly. 
~ Jim Rohn


You've read it, now what will you do with it?

YOU Matter!!

Friday, September 5, 2014

Are You Listening?


In every complaint, there is a request.
You must LISTEN, in order to respond.
Otherwise, you are only reacting, making matters worse.

Today, CHOOSE to listen.
Stay fully present, fully focused on what is being said
rather than trying to figure out what you will say next.